It sometimes seems to me that this is one of the most pressing, and most intricate, issues in the world of men. There are those who naturally know how to attract pretty women, and there are others who never seem to get it right – and throughout history, they’ve tested myriads of mind-made “methods”. What works, what doesn’t? If you examine it on a grand scale, strikingly enough, you come to a rather simple conclusion: attraction is constant vibe that naturally exists between men and women. Both sexes are inherently attractive to each other! Nature made them that way! So what’s hindering us? We’re not in touch with our attractiveness. Here’s some advice for us men.
Be a man
Be honest with yourself: the more feminine a woman is, the more attracted you are to her, right? It’s her curves, her lips, eyes, features, but also her demeanor, the way she walks, talks, her actions and moves, her habits, mannerisms, her voice. Believe it or not: in the same vein, whatever media or social convention may dictate, it’s still our pure masculinity that makes us attractive to women. Forget about being “metrosexual”, touchy-feely, or a nice compliant teddy bear. Instead, check out what one of the world’s biggest machos has to say. Clint Eastwood:
“I don’t like the wimp syndrome. No matter how ardent a feminist may be, if she is a heterosexual female, she wants the strength of a male companion as well as the sensitivity. The most gentle people in the world are macho males, people who are confident in their masculinity and have a feeling of well-being in themselves. They don’t have to kick in doors, mistreat women, or make fun of gays.”
Be the gentle man
A “gentleman” is both “gentle” and a “man”. We tend to forget that. Let’s look at “being gentle”. What does that entail? I’ll give you two pointers:
Listen to find out what makes a woman special and unique, and look at her closely to see special features she has. Did she dye her hair in a colour that matches her brown-green eyes? Remember her favorite color, ice cream flavor, food? She’ll love you for noticing these things and pointing them out.
Be in touch with your emotions
Know the good, the bad and the ugly. Life is a series of ups and downs, acknowledge them and don’t hide your vulnerable and weak spots. Showing them is an ultimate display of strength, and what’s more, it will make you so much more credible when you exhibit your powerful qualities.