If you know how to make a girl smile, then you will automatically be more successful with women in general. People like to smile, it makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside and these feelings will be associated with the person who has made you smile. Wouldn’t you like a girl to feel warm and fuzzy when she thinks about you ?
The Best Smiles
Here are the kinds of smiles you are trying to get:
- Genuine smile
- Compliment smile
- Impressed smile
- Happy smile
And here are the kind of smiles you want to avoid:
- Polite smile
- Weird / “You are insane” smile.
- I own you smile
The easiest way to get a smile out of a girl is to make use of the environment you’re both in at the moment, and to highlight something funny that is occurring. There is always something interesting or funny happening if you pay attention to it.
For example, if you’re both waiting in line… make eye contact so that she notices you, and then immediately go into a huge fake yawn hinting that you’re bored of the waiting line. This works great if there’s a huge line and no one is talking. The key is to be funny while retaining your dignity. If you make a fool of yourself, you’ll get the “you are weird” smile. We have another article on how to make women laugh that dives a little deeper into this.
A more verbal approach in situational smiles would be to point something funny out to her. Usually talking about other people or items is an easy way to score a laugh. If you were grocery shopping and you happened to be in the cheese isle, you could say in a serious tone: “This cheese reminds me of the moon”, and then break out a small grin. Its dumb, but it works.
Avoid pre-canned material
Of course, the WORST way to force a smile is to use someone else’s joke or canned material. If it doesn’t come out as spontaneous and natural, then it will trigger the polite smile. Whatever you do, do not ever tell a joke with a beginning, a middle and an end. These will NOT trigger any attraction whatsoever. In fact, what this says is that you are trying to impress her and this will consequently lead to less attraction.