If you have your eye on a special girl and you’re wondering how to make a girl like you, then you must ask yourself: How can I make myself like me first ? The truth of the matter is, if you truly like yourself, then others will as well.
Are you a fun person to be around ?
Are you genuine, trustworthy, social ?
When you wake up in the morning, are you happy to be who you have become ?
If the answer to these are yes, then people will naturally be attracted to you and will like you for who you are. The problem lies with people who are unhappy with an aspect of themselves, and then try to cover it up so that people will like them.
Don’t be that guy !
The fastest way to get women to like you is to overcome the part of yourself that you don’t like.
Working On Yourself Will Make Girls Like You
For example, if you’re anti-social, and you just don’t like talking to people… then force yourself to get out of your shell and go socialize with others. Read our how to talk to girls article for a practical guide.
Practice this, live this, and work through it step by step.
One of the most attractive qualities ANYONE can have is to overcome something that was difficult for them. If you’re a shy guy, and you make an effort to go out, then that’s respectable. Same applies to women… Its very attractive to see a woman step out of her normal safe boundaries, trying things that normally would scare her.
Genuinely Liking Yourself
Once you genuinely like who you’ve become. All you need to do is show the other person who’ve you become.
Of course, you’ll want to do this in a slow, subtle way. No one wants to be around someone who brags all the time. Bragging lowers your value because it puts you in a position of trying to impress someone else.
Once you’re happy with yourself, and that you’re comfortable with where you are in life, everything else will come naturally.
Modeling people who are successful
One way to accelerate the process of becoming your ideal self is to hang out with guys who already posses the traits that you desire. If possible, try to find people that have qualities that you lack and hang out with them. Otherwise, if this is not possible, then the next best way is to learn directly from dating gurus like David DeAngelo. David has a great way of describing exactly how to make a girl like you for who you really are.
In the end, you really can’t make a girl to like you, but you certainly can affect what kind of person you are. Are you going to be a good catch or a loser?