A friend of mine told me this story: she was taking dancing classes, and a really friendly guy had been giving her lots of attention for a couple of sessions. He was the classic “nice” guy: always agreeing, apologizing and trying to please her. He was bumbling and wore oversized clothes. One day, a friend took her aside and said: “Hey, why are you not going for that guy? Look at him, he’s all into you.”
She answered: “Yes – but come on, he’s not a man! ” Darwinian, huh? Now, when guys ask me “What do girls look for in a guy”, I always remember this story, and one of my first answers is: balls.
Females love males
Remember this: girls, feminine by nature, are attracted to masculinity. The more of that they sense in a man, the harder they’ll find it to resist. Isn’t it the same for you with very feminine women?
Well, my friend certainly didn’t find the dancing teddy bear attractive. Cuddly and nice, yes, but panty-wetting hot? Nope. Why? A couple of things she told me:
- He had no opinion of his own
- He had no sex appeal
- He couldn’t make her laugh
- He was too “nice”
Ouch. The last one especially hurts, because once you’re in that category, your sex life is done. Grow some balls to resurrect it.