Some spend their entire lives trying to figure out what girls want from guys, and it seems like a constant uphill battle. There are so many theories, stereotypes and role models, and how they clash with what we see around us! The media perpetuate the image of the self-made queen that demands respect from men, but in reality, women seem to want rude behavior and expensive gifts – or do they? We wreck our brains trying to figure it what women want from men – and in the process, everybody loses. But it could be so simple! Imagine a world in which women could simply be feminine, and men masculine. Today, let’s explore what that means.
Strength, confidence, leadership qualities
When you think of a “masculine” man, who do you imagine? Bruce Willis, Chuck Norris, Duke Nukem? If so, you may be overdoing it a bit, but you’re on the right track: even though a few decades of feminism have ingrained the image of the strong, independent, self-made woman into society’s collective brain, our biological programming is still there, and it’s just a tad older: the classic strong and confident leader, the one that can kick some butt to protect the ladies, is still a very attractive one.
What does that mean for you? Well, keep your fists in your pockets, you don’t need to go out and beat up miscreants. But when she’s around you, she needs to feel she can switch off her tough girl persona and just be feminine – because you are there to protect her.
A Decision Maker
For example, become a decision-maker: when you invite (not ask) her out for a date, don’t ask her what she wants to do. Take the lead, and decide yourself! You don’t even need to tell her. Throw in a little mystery to get the tension going:
“Friday night at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear black.”
In your everyday life, start standing up for yourself, set goals and reach them, and show that you are in charge of your reality.
The concept of social proof
Imagine a negative, friendless guy who stays at home and plays video games. Now, imagine a fun, sexy guy who’s surrounded by friends – male and female – all the time. Which one do you think has more “social proof”?
Women are very attracted to socially successful men: if you have a vibrant circle of friends, you will be seen as a great catch. Why is that? Well, if other people think you’re awesome – then it must be true!
So, if you want to get good with women, work on building a “clique” before you actually get to the girls.
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