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A Million Things To Do With Your Girlfriend

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If you’re like most guys, then it’s likely you’re at a point where you’ve run out of new and exciting things to do with your girlfriend. You can only watch so many movies per week in a relationship, and if that number is already above 2 then I’d suggest switching it up a little. After all, diversity and spontaneity are highly sought after in today’s world!

The trick in finding things to do with your significant other is to figure out what you want to do first. Once you know what you feel like doing, figure out a way to share the fun with her. That way, you both enjoy your time together. Don’t get into the trap of doing things with your girlfriend just so it will make her happy, because ultimately, when you don’t truly enjoy yourself, she will feel it. For example, don’t suggest going to an art museum just because you think she’ll enjoy it… you’ll be bored and consequently, she’ll have a miserable time as well.

Activities

Instead, find activities you personally like to do and then make your girlfriend a part of it. (See building an attractive lifestyle) For example, if you like skiing, then set up a time to go skiing with her (and if she doesn’t ski, then teach her!). This way, you’ll enjoy yourself and consequently, she will as well. Remember, she’s dating you because she wants to be part of your life… if she just wanted to watch romantic movies and go shopping, she’d simply go with her girlfriends.

Share Experiences Together

If you like gaming, then show her how to play your favorite game.
If you like going out to eat, then find a new restaurant to try out with her.
If you enjoy site seeing, then go out and discover new parts of your city.
If you’re feeling a little more adventurous, then you could try urban exploration.
If you enjoy climbing, then bring her indoor rock climbing.

What Do You Like?

The list goes on, but it always starts with you. Figure out what you enjoy and then go from there.
If you’re really out of ideas and need a little inspiration, here are my personal favorites.

1. Cooking together, making an entire meal is not only delicious, but it’s a really fun thing to do with your girlfriend.
2. Massages, it seriously doesn’t get better than this. If you haven’t had at least 2 massages today, then you might need another one. Don’t be afraid to use massage oils as well, they are great! (Warning, you’ll miss these when she leaves on long trips!)

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If you're like most guys, then it's likely you're at a point where you've run out of new and exciting things to do with your girlfriend. You can only watch so many movies per week in a relationship, and if that number is already above 2 then I'd suggest switching it up a little. After all, diversity and spontaneity are highly sought after in today's world!
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  • a girls view

    Some good ideas there! Some of my personal favourites to add to the list would be going to a zoo, or maybe to the park and watching the ducks. I think it is important to ultimately find things that you will both enjoy and introducing her to your favourite activities is great, but once in awhile if you do something that interests HER, she’ll really appreciate it. Maybe even more so if she knows you’re doing it for her and that it’s not something you’d do otherwise – it shows that you care for her enough to put her interests ahead of your own, and not think of yourself first all the time. You might even end up enjoying yourself just because she is! Even if not, if it’s something that means a lot to her, suck it up and make the best of it! It’s not something you have to do all the time, but she’ll be happy to reciprocate when it comes to things you enjoy that might not be up her alley. It shouldn’t always start with YOU. It goes BOTH ways, you should be dating her because you also want to be a part of HER life. Your life TOGETHER will be better for it.

    Just a different perspective ;)

  • http://www.seductionbooks.org/ Chris Calo

    I agree :)

  • Nate

    No way, always start with yourself. Bring up thing you like and see if she like one of thorn. If you start with what she likes and you don’t like them, you will be miserable. Life is short never settle for seconds. Do what you enjoy. It’s your life. Never be a kiss ass. What are you going to scrapbook because she loves it? Hell no.

  • phung

    haha i agree with both of you guys? guys shouldn’t be kiss asses but shouldn’t devote their life to their ladies. Do what makes both of you happy and every once in a while try something new.

  • Jonny

    Hahahaha Nate, you crack me up. What if the girl had the same idea you have. I don’t think you’d enjoy yourself.

  • lol

    lol watching ducks. what are you 60?

  • Gurl lova

    Nate, bet ya dont have a girlfriend with that attitude ;DD

  • bois

    the heated debate just goes to tell how this was a HOT topic, even i was anxious about it, looking forward to some sequels

  • jerry

    i met this pretty and gorgeous lady who happens to give me her attention as a result of our eye contact and body movement got my attention. So the issue is that i didn’t collect her contact. So what do i do next?

  • reuben

    if you’re loaded just bring her shopping, that works all the time :)