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Discover: Why Women are Jealous of Men

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A Woman’s Point of View

Although I’d never not want to be a woman, I have to envy some killer advantages men have. I can think of three really important ways that men have it over on women and that make me downright green.

I’m Jealous Reason One – Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe

Men get to do the picking….who they’re going to go out with, who they’re going to flirt (read how to flirt with women) with, women really do have to do the waiting by the sidelines to see how it plays out. I think women can maneuver to be available, be seen, put themselves into positions of visibility for the dude they’re after, but the real picking? Nah…. men hold the levers, free and clear; they don’t even have to shove anyone over, they really are planted in the captain’s chair 90% of the time. (read how to approach girls to be in that captain’s chair)

Men can dominate in so many ways in the relationship….how it starts, how often we connect, how much we talk digitally during the day, when we kiss…the list is endless. Even though sometimes I can imagine a man wants to relinquish the lead work – all the, leading and cutting through the forest with the machete — it’s a damn cool position.

I can only compare it to management….sometimes you want to yell out, “YOU be in charge today” but damn if its’ not more fun to do all the deciding and carrying the machete.

I was talking to a man the other day and he was moaning about how it was hard to meet women. I was annoyed. I had to grab him and shake him up – “all you have to do is head out of the house and make it your mission to meet five women today”…. He had all the control to make that happen by ramping up the mojo and heading out, shoving down the approach anxiety and doing it. Women can send out the smoke signals, but the tribal chief…that’s you… decides if and when to walk over to the smoke to investigate.

Second Reason to be Green — Men Deal with Rejection Well

I really dig the way men can deal with rejection. I’m awed and amazed and inspired.

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Although I’d never not want to be a woman, I have to envy some killer advantages men have. I can think of three really important ways that men have it over on women and that make me downright green.
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  • Amr Ashraf

    i liked it
    but althought that women are jealous of men. Men are learning now how to contact with women it really silly.why women didnt try to read and learn how to contact with men?

  • Zardoz

    Great article. I can understand why you would see us as hard, emotional tank commanders. God no…we are pussieees.

  • Cherrybomb

    Excuse me. No offense, but I completely disagree. While these might be your opinions, they definetly do not represent why all women are jealous of men. I thought you were going to say something like the fact that women’s first times hurt, but men’s don’t. Women have to worry about getting pregnant, men don’t. Or the fact that men can sleep around and achieve God status, while women will be branded ‘sluts’ or ‘whores’. The same case applies to threesomes. Man with two women = hot. Women with two men = slutty. Male sexuality is more open, while traditionally a girl should be an innocent little flower who allows the man to dominate her. Female masturbation is considered taboo, virginity is seen as very important in most countries for women only, male domination…the list goes on .There are millions of reasons why women would be jealous of men, and I only named a few reasons that were directly related to sex.

    • sweetenigma

      Great points Cherrybomb. This article definitely does not describe the top reasons for being jealous of men. How about one reason that comes to mind.. It is more acceptable for men to age then women.. Men age and they look distinguished. Women age and all sorts of names are applied to them, old hag etc.

  • Amr Ashraf

    @cherrybomb: i liked your comment….yes virginity is seen as very important in most countries for women only, but at male no one takecare of that. But i think the writer mean why women are jealous of men in normal and comman cases not just at sex

  • Andrew

    “Men get to do the picking….who they’re going to go out with, who they’re going to flirt (read how to flirt with women) with, women really do have to do the waiting by the sidelines to see how it plays out. I think women can maneuver to be available, be seen, put themselves into positions of visibility for the dude they’re after, but the real picking? Nah…. men hold the levers, free and clear; they don’t even have to shove anyone over, they really are planted in the captain’s chair 90% of the time. (read how to approach girls to be in that captain’s chair)”

    “I was talking to a man the other day and he was moaning about how it was hard to meet women. I was annoyed. I had to grab him and shake him up – “all you have to do is head out of the house and make it your mission to meet five women today”…. He had all the control to make that happen by ramping up the mojo and heading out, shoving down the approach anxiety and doing it. Women can send out the smoke signals, but the tribal chief…that’s you… decides if and when to walk over to the smoke to investigate.”

    I’m a guy and I disagree, you girls get to have the final say, all you have to do is welcome or deny advances, Guys have to know how to talk to girls, but Girls do not need to know how to talk to Guys.

  • dave

    Who said that women were worth all of this effort? Who is telling women how to act? Oh, no one? Maybe women need to taste some more rejection so that they can understand it better!

  • Scott

    this is foolish…women control every aspect of a relationship. The ONLY men who have the control this ignoramus speaks of are the abusers.

  • Scott

    Men have control over when the couple KISS?!?!? You Claudine; you are a space cadet

  • williamone

    Woman are very jellous of other’s success. especially how men conqure a unique field of success that a woman wants but she has to cheat in order to have it all.

  • ThatGuyWink717

    I’m pretty sure the two major differences between men and women are plumbing and social expectation. I was raised to believe in the differences of men and women but quite frankly there really aren’t that many differences, we feel and think ungodly similarly on a case by case situation, we’ve just been tought to act certain ways so our differences seem more pronounced. Sorry if I’ve spoiled anyone’s fun but it’s 2013 and it’s past time to move on from this stupid gender segregation thing we have and embrace individuality. Which will ultimately lead to sameness, ironically.