You walk in and she looks at you… she knows. You look distressed, out of place. You’re shy, a little lost and she can feel it. That glance that everyone gives you when you enter a place… that quick look can be what makes or breaks you that evening. When you enter a new environment, be a bar, a club or any venue, you’ll notice that only certain people are giving you a quick glance.
Remember this for later, it will be a good nugget of information to have: People that are in engaged in interesting conversations will ignore you whereas people that are looking for something new will notice you as you walk in.
It’s human nature and our minds are trained to to find the ‘next interesting thing’.
In a few seconds, I’ll show you how you can be the next interesting thing.
A hero walks in
So how are you going to make your entrance?
Are you going to be the guy that people ignore or are you going to be the man that everyone wants to talk to?
Within seconds of walking into a new venue, people will make their own assumptions about you. Unconsciously, they’ll judge you on your appearance, your posture, your friends, etc. See how to look good for your appearance. They’ll make hundreds of assessments of who you are and later on in the evening, those will come back into play. If you make a great entrance, people will be happy to talk to you. Make a horrible entrance, and they won’t even give you a chance to open your mouth.
Making Your Entrance
When nervous people walk into a new environment, they tend to make fast movements and scan the area. If you find yourself checking out all the hot women when you walk into a new place, that’s what I’m talking about. If your eyes are scanning everything in sight and your head is turning to capture everything then you’ll appear to be quite nervous.
Here’s why: Imagine that you’re walking in a jungle, and you have to pay attention to all the noises around you. Ignore a noise and something might jump out of the bush and kill you. In order to stay alive, you must be on high alert. They scan everything, look everywhere and are ready to react in a split second. This is how some people make their entrance and it’s not attractive.
Now picture the opposite. You’re back home in your bedroom and you’re hungry. “Mmm, I have a sandwich in the fridge” you think. Your stomach grumbles, your mouth waters and you walk to the kitchen to satisfy your desire. Are you scanning the area? Of course not! You’re at home and you feel very comfortable. You just walk straight to the fridge without the slightest hesitation. You have a smile on your face because you know how delicious that sandwich will be… you can almost taste it.
That’s how I want you to walk into a new place. Imagine that YOUR fridge is at the other end of the venue, and that you’re hungry. You don’t need to pay attention to anything else and you’re already overly comfortable with the new environment.
You’re walking at a happy pace and you’re not scanning the room. You’re just walking with your head high and in specific direction with a smile. (If you want more, read our good first impression guide.)
Conquering your new environment
Now that you’ve done your entrance. There is an easy way to have a high success rate and talk to beautiful girls for the rest of the night.
Remember when you walked in? Remember when I told you that people that were bored would notice you? Well, there you go!
If you’re able to pick up on subtle glances when you walk in (without making huge abrupt movements or scanning the room), then you already know which girls are open to talking to you. From there, just go up and introduce yourself!
“Hi, I just walked in and noticed you, how’s it going so far?”
1. What are some common mistakes men make when trying to make a good first impression with women?
There are a number of common mistakes men make when trying to make a good first impression with women. One of the most common is to try and appear too macho or alpha male. This can come across as arrogant and even aggressive, and is likely to make women feel uncomfortable. Another common mistake is to try and be too funny, or to crack jokes that are in poor taste. This can make you appear insensitive and even childish.
2. What are some things men can do to make a better first impression?
There are a few key things that men can do to make a better first impression with women. First, it is important to be well-groomed and well-dressed. This shows that you take pride in your appearance and care about making a good impression. Second, be confident and make eye contact. Women are attracted to confident men who can hold a conversation and make them feel special. Third, be a good listener.
3. What are some body language cues that men should be aware of when meeting a woman for the first time?
When meeting a woman for the first time, men should be aware of the following body language cues:
1. Maintaining eye contact: Maintaining eye contact with a woman shows that you are interested in her and are confident in yourself.
2. Smiling: Smiling is a friendly gesture that can put a woman at ease.
3. Standing up straight: Standing up straight shows that you are confident and respectful.
4. What are some things men should avoid saying or doing when meeting a woman for the first time?
There are a few things men should avoid saying or doing when meeting a woman for the first time. One is to avoid making any comment about her appearance. This includes compliments or criticisms. It is best to let her know that you think she looks nice, but avoid going into detail about what you like or don’t like about her appearance.
Another thing to avoid is making any assumptions about her.
5. What are some topics of conversation that are generally considered to be appropriate for first impressions?
Some topics of conversation that are generally considered to be appropriate for first impressions are:
-Where you’re from
-What you do for a living
-Your hobbies and interests
-Your favorite music, movies, and TV shows
-Your favorite books
-Your favorite places to travel
-Your favorite food
-Your political views
-Your religious views
-Your thoughts on current events
6. What are some topics of conversation that are generally considered to be inappropriate for first impressions?
Some topics of conversation that are generally considered to be inappropriate for first impressions are:
– Family problems
7. What is the best way for a man to approach a woman he is interested in?
The best way to approach a woman will vary depending on the situation and the individuals involved. However, some general tips that may be helpful include: making eye contact, smiling, and starting a conversation by asking questions about her interests. It is also important to be respectful and avoid coming across as pushy or creepy. If the woman seems uninterested, it is probably best to move on.
8. How can a man tell if a woman is interested in him?
A man can tell if a woman is interested in him if she makes eye contact, smiles, and/or starts conversations with him. She may also touch him, stand close to him, or try to get his attention in other ways. If a man is interested in a woman, he will usually do the same things to show his interest.
9. What should a man do if he is interested in a woman but she is not interested in him?
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as the best course of action will vary depending on the situation and the individuals involved. However, there are some general tips that may be helpful in this situation.
First, it is important to remember that not every woman is going to be interested in every man. It is perfectly normal for there to be some attraction that is not reciprocated.
10. How do I make a good first impression with someone I like?
When you first meet a woman, it’s important to make a good impression. Here are some tips:
– Smile and make eye contact.
– Be confident and relaxed.
– Listen more than you talk.
– Ask questions and show interest in her.
– Be yourself and don’t try to be someone you’re not.
– Avoid controversial topics and things that could potentially offend her.
– Dress well and groom yourself properly.
11. How can I make sure that I am making a good impression?
The best way to make a good impression will vary depending on the situation and the people you are interacting with. However, there are some general tips that can help you to make a good impression in most situations.
Some basic things to keep in mind are to smile, make eye contact, and be polite and friendly. It is also important to be yourself and to be honest.
12. What are some things you can do to make a good first impression?
There are many things you can do to make a good first impression with a woman. Here are some suggestions:
– Smile and make eye contact when you first meet her.
– Be a gentleman and hold the door open for her or offer to help her with something.
– Compliment her on her appearance in a sincere and respectful way.
– Be engaging and interesting when you talk to her. Ask her questions about herself and listen attentively to her answers.
13. What are some things you should avoid doing?
If you want to make a good first impression, you should avoid being late, looking disheveled, being rude, and appearing uninterested.
14. Where should I go to meet women?
Some general tips that may be useful include frequenting places that are popular with women, such as coffee shops, bookstores, or gyms. Additionally, it may be helpful to attend events or activities that are likely to be of interest to women.
15. Where are some good places to take a date?
There are a lot of great places to take a date. It all depends on what you and your date are into. Here are a few ideas:
-If you’re both into nature, take a hike or go for a picnic in a beautiful spot.
-If you’re both into art, visit a museum or go to an art gallery opening.
-If you’re both into food, go out for a nice dinner or cook a meal together.
What's a good show that had a terrible first impression?
Parks and Rec. The first season was...bleak.
What are some easy tips to make a good first impression?
Smile. Look friendly.
Nothing worse then meeting people who look like they consider meeting you to be a pain.
How can people make a good first impression?
Your posture, tonality and eye contact are the most important elements... get them right and you'll make a good first impression.
How would you make a good first impression with your favorite servant?
I'd give her a gourmet buffet upon summoning her, while also trying to avoid being killed by an Irish dog wearing blue tights and telling her how I want to be a hero.
Worked for the last guy...