The thought of tricking a girl into falling in love with you is a disturbing one. Love is a huge emotion that can radically and completely dictate someone’s life. If it was possible to perform a few magical steps in order to make a girl fall in love with you, we would live in a harsh world of broken hearts. Uh oh… don’t we already? You cannot make anyone do anything and you certainly cannot make anyone love you. In my experience, the more you try to make a girl fall in love you, the less she will. Its kind of a catch-22 in that way but fortunately there are two aspects you can concentrate on to help you along the way.
What Women Expect On A First Date
|Be polite||Talk about yourself||Being cheeky|
|Compliment her||Monopolise conversation||Overly confident|
|Be punctual||Brag about self||Being too honest|
|Dress up||Talk about the ex||Keeping it cool|
|Have table manners||Stare at breasts||Showing swagger|
|Open door for her||Discuss your income||Being funny|
|Pay for the meal||Complain||Clowning around|
|Show interest in her||Interrupt her||Lead conversation|
|Call her by name||Kiss her||Being unpredictable|
What do you love in life?
Usually its the things that make you happy and the things that we attribute the most value to. Keeping in mind these two aspects of human nature, we can therefore conclude that in order for someone to love us, we must make them happy and we must be valuable to them.
Happiness is contagious
Let’s work on making them happy first, its really simple and is overlooked by most people. The simple rule to making someone happy is to be happy yourself. Being happy is contagious and people in your presence will automatically feel similar to you. If you’re happy about life, then the people around you will want to have you around them as well. If you’re always down, depressed or angry, then you are making yourself very hard to love.
Example #1 – Love Images
Think of someone that you love or loved. Imagine them in your mind until you can see a picture of their face. In this picture, are they happy or sad ? Its very likely that in the mental picture that you have, they are smiling or happy. If it worked for you, then it should also work for others.
The things you love the most consequently have a lot of value. Can you really love something that has no value? Things that are replaceable, or are easily attainable have little value in our lives. So make yourself valuable and people will love you. Being valuable isn’t as hard as people think.
The concept of value is relative, in an organization, the most valuable person is the boss even if in another situation, he could be completely insignificant. This is why so many secretaries are attracted to their boss. He has the most value. Let’s take this concept and apply it in practical situations.
Example #2 – Value
If you’re in school, then the most valuable person will be the person that is most respected by his peers. This can be the football star among cheerleaders, or the smart guy who gets the best grades. He can also be the guy who makes the girls laugh the most, or the guy that has the best house parties that everyone wants to attend. On a side note, you might want to read our article on building a great social circle.
In a work environment, the most valuable person can once again, be the social funny guy that everyone wants to hang out with, or the boss, or the sharp guy that the boss respects the most.
But… what if the girl I like doesn’t know about these social situations ? Well then… Tell her about your day! Although not as efficient, just telling her about your daily interactions (in a non-gloating way) can be an effective way of communicating your value.
The Obsessions Method explains in detail exactly how to be perceived as the most valuable person while building massive attraction. When searching for a guide that would clearly outline exactly ‘what to do’, this was the best one we found.
In the end, don’t concentrate on how to make a girl fall in love with you because as soon as you try to make someone love you, they won’t. So instead, concentrate on being happy and valuable, the rest will come naturally.