It’s a sunny spring afternoon. As you walk home from work, you reach the bridge where you cross the river every day, but today, something’s different: a young woman is standing at the railing, taking photos. She wears bright, colourful clothes and a little flower in her red hair that shines in the sun. Boy, she looks gorgeous. And you wish you had a way to talk to her right there and then.
If all you’ve learned about “game” applies to night clubs, bars and parties – social surroundings – then it might seem daunting to approach a beautiful girl during the day. In reality though, it’s actually much easier to learn how to meet women during the day because they aren’t constantly being hit on by other men.
What makes Day Game different?
Let’s look at the obvious first: the location. If you go out in the evening, you usually approach women in clubs and bars. When, instead, you run into a woman during the day, it can be literally anywhere: in parks, cafés, on train platforms, in shops, malls, college campuses, galleries, the plain ol’ streets or a bridge across a river.
Consider this: bars, pubs or clubs are specifically designed for social interaction during the night time, and “mingling” is quite usual and expected there. During the daytime, on the other hand, people are probably not in “social” mode: they are often busy running errands and getting somewhere, or they’re out alone minding their own business. If they’re with friends, then they’re most interested in each other. Contrary to, say, a bar setting, you cannot just assume that they are ready to be chatted up, or that they even have time to stop and talk.
Oh, and one more thing: as they wander through their day, people are usually bored out of their skulls. We’ll see in a moment how you can use that to your advantage.
How to approach: your smile
Your first step is to display a big, confident smile. I don’t mean the kind of smile where you raise the corners of your mouth. I want you to smile with your mouth and eyes, actually, your entire face, heck, your entire body. Have a curious smile, not a creepy one.
Adopt this mindset: “I am a curious person, my life is happy and I’d like to get to know this lovely woman.” This is what your smile should convey. What’s the idea behind this? Well, you’re not trying to get something from the person. You have so much happiness in your life that you can actually share it with them.
In addition to that smile, establish eye contact as soon as possible.
How to approach: the first words
First of all, say something as easy as “excuse me?” to get the girl’s attention. You may also tap her on the shoulder, or go with the situation: if she looks dreamy, wave your hand in front of her eyes. She will likely laugh. Acknowledge two things:
1. She’s busy
2. She’s bored
With that, I mean she’s most likely busy doing something boring. Now, your first contact should convey a friendly and fun energy (hence the smile): by bringing that to her life, you present a welcome distraction that cheers her up. She will probably want to keep you around!
False Time Constraints
Next, introduce a “false time constraint”: this means explaining that you won’t stay very long.
The wrong way to do this:
– “I’m sorry to disturb you, and I won’t take up much of your time”
Three right ways to do this (and there’s a little secret in here that I’ll disclose further down):
– “I’m on my way home from work, and I noticed you.”
– “I’m meeting a friend in a minute, but I wanted to stop and say hi”
– “I have to catch the bus, but… are you a tourist? Your camera sure says so.”
You can be direct or use the situation to start the conversation – by pointing out something she does, wears, has, a gesture or feature, an event or object in the surroundings, a smell, sight, sound, taste, feeling, sensation, or a specific or general observation (specific: applies to this very situation, general: applies in general). Either way, you signal to her that you’re in a rush yourself (who cares if you really are), which gives you three advantages:
1. She won’t feel crowded
2. She won’t think you’ll muck up her schedule
3. She’ll realize that she can lose you again any minute
Now, from there, yes, you want to be fun – but: don’t try too hard to be clever. This is about having a nice and easy conversation, something that both of you will enjoy while it lasts – and then, if you have a good vibe, you can always meet up again.
Imagine you’re talking to a friend you haven’t seen in a while. Wouldn’t you come up with something you should totally do together soon? “Hey, I gotta run, but why don’t we go to Frankie’s on Thursday for a drink? They have live music.”
Yes. Right there and then, set up the next date. Hey, you may even go on an insta-date: “You have nothing to do right now? What the heck, let’s grab some ice cream.” If you can’t do either (hey, we’re not always creative), end the conversation with: “I liked this conversation, how can we continue it?”
So that’s our little introduction to how to meet women during the day. Now, I kept the most important bit for last: your little secret. To make your daytime approach successful, you have to show the woman early on – almost immediately – that you are interested in her. If you don’t, this will just be another generic, friendly conversation that she will forget about by the same evening. Don’t walk into that trap – be a man and show you’re curious about her.
1. What are some effective ways to meet women?
The best way to meet women depends on a variety of factors, including your age, location, and interests. However, there are some general tips that can help you meet women and potentially start a relationship.
One effective way to meet women is through online dating. This can be a great option if you’re shy or busy, as you can browse profiles and message women at your own pace.
2. What are some common mistakes men make when trying to meet women?
There are a lot of mistakes that men make when trying to meet women, but here are some of the most common ones:
1. Not being confident: A lot of men think that they need to be super confident in order to attract women, but that’s not necessarily true. Women are attracted to confident men, but if you come across as cocky or arrogant, you’re likely to turn them off.2.
3. What are some things that women look for in a potential partner?
When it comes to finding a potential partner, women often look for someone who is kind, caring, and considerate. They also want someone who is reliable and trustworthy. A sense of humor is also important to many women, as is a strong sense of self-confidence. Women also tend to prefer partners who are financially stable and who have a good job.
4. What are some red flags that women look for in a partner?
There are many red flags that women look for in a potential partner. Some of the most common include:
1. Lack of respect for personal boundaries.
2. A history of violence or abusive behavior.
3. A history of infidelity.
4. A lack of empathy or concern for others.
5. A lack of accountability for one’s actions.
6. A lack of transparency or honesty.
5. What are some things that men can do to increase their chances of meeting someone?
There are a few things that men can do to increase their chances of meeting a woman. One is to get involved in activities that interest them and that women also enjoy. This could include things like joining a book club, taking a cooking class, or going to a wine tasting. Another is to be active in social circles where they are likely to meet women. This might mean going to parties, networking events, or even just striking up conversations with people in line at the grocery store.
6. What are some things that men can do to make themselves more attractive to women?
Some men may find that dressing in a more stylish or fashionable way can help them to be more attractive to women.
7. What are some things that men can do to make a good first impression on a woman?
When it comes to making a good first impression on a woman, there are a few key things that men can do to really set themselves apart from the rest. For starters, it’s important to be well-groomed and well-dressed.
8. What are some things that men can do to keep her interested?
1. Be communicative: Women appreciate when their partners are good communicators. This means being able to express your thoughts and feelings openly and honestly. It also means being a good listener – being able to really hear and understand what she’s saying.
2. Be supportive: Women need partners who are supportive – both emotionally and practically.
9. What are some things that men can do to avoid coming across as creepy or desperate?
There are a few things that men can do to avoid coming across as creepy or desperate. First, they can make sure that they are well-groomed and well-dressed. Second, they can be sure to keep their hands to themselves and not make any sudden movements. Third, they can try to keep their conversation light and friendly, without getting too personal. Finally, they can make sure to respect personal boundaries and not invade someone’s personal space.
10. What are some things that men can do to make sure they are meeting the right type of women?
There are a few things that men can do to make sure they are meeting the right type of women. First, they can make sure that they are being themselves and not trying to be someone they think women want them to be. Second, they can be honest about what they are looking for in a relationship and what they can offer. Third, they can be clear about their intentions from the beginning and make sure that they are not leading women on.
11. Who can help me meet women?
Some people find that they have the most success meeting women through friends or acquaintances, while others find that online dating or dating apps are the best way for them to meet women. There are also many ways to meet women through hobbies or interests, such as through meetup groups or online forums.
12. Who do I know that is already good at meeting women?
It depends on your personal social network and where you tend to meet women. However, here are some general tips:
-Start by making a list of all the women you know, including friends, family, co-workers, and acquaintances.
-Then, think about which women on your list you would feel comfortable approaching and talking to about meeting other women. These are the women you should focus on.
15. What are some good ways to meet women?
Some popular ways include online dating, social networking, and attending singles events. However, it is important to remember that not all methods will work for everyone, so it is important to find what works best for you.
One great way to meet women is through online dating.
16. What are some good places to meet girls?
There are many good places to meet women. Some of the best places to meet women are at social events, like parties or clubs. Other great places to meet women are at work, or through mutual friends. You can also meet women through online dating sites, or by taking part in activities that interest you.
17. Where are the best places to meet women?
Some of these places may include attending social events, joining clubs or groups with similar interests, and online dating.
Social events can be a great way to meet new people, including women. Try attending events that are likely to attract women such as art gallery openings, book readings, or wine tastings.
2. Where do most women prefer to be approached?
There is no definitive answer to this question as every woman is different and therefore has different preferences when it comes to being approached by men. However, there are a few general tips that may help increase your chances of success when approaching women. First, try to gauge her level of interest before approaching her. If she seems disinterested or unapproachable, it’s probably best to move on. Second, make sure you are confident and assertive when you approach her.
3. Where are women most likely to be open to meeting someone new?
There is no definitive answer to this question, as every woman is different and therefore some women may be more open to meeting someone new in different places than others. However, some general places where women might be more open to meeting someone new include social events, like parties or networking events, or online, on dating websites or social media platforms.
4. Where do women feel the safest?
There is no definitive answer to this question as different women feel safe in different places. Some women may feel safest in their homes, while others may feel safest in public places surrounded by people. Some women may feel safest in nature, while others may feel safest in urban environments. Ultimately, it depends on the individual woman and what makes her feel most comfortable and secure.