Seducing women has always been a challenge for many men in our new generation. Men these days seem to have gone through a massive cultural change which has affected their ability to attract and seduce women.
Learning social skills aims at recreating balance through technology. The seduction system, broken down, to a point where it is methodical and predictable, is currently the crutch for the men who otherwise would not have been to naturally embrace seduction process.
The Social Switch Behind the Art of Seduction
Why is this the case? Why have men seemingly lost their natural ability to seduce women? Understanding what women want from men is crucial to addressing this issue? These days, the modern man spends hours a day in a frozen, dumb state. Either in front of a computer, channeling his thoughts through a keyboard, watching TV, watching a movie, men everywhere are being isolated from society. After working for 8 hours on a computer which only responds to mouse clicks, the mental switch to have a delightful conversation with a beautiful woman seems daunting. In the art of seduction, the modern man must make this switch from ‘logical, isolated, non-creative’ to a more social, imaginative and friendly state.
The phrase the art of seduction is also tied to Robert Greene, whose book looks at power, attention, desire, presence, psychology, persuasion, romance, and archetypes such as the seducer, siren, rake, dandy, coquette, charmer, charismatic, star, and ideal lover. For real dating, those ideas work best as reminders to create genuine interest, body language, mystery, charm, and emotional connection rather than manipulation; the goal is to notice the other person’s comfort, resistance, and attraction instead of treating anyone like a target or victim.
Two Ways to Make the Switch
In this system, there are two ways to make this switch.
1. Naturally
Naturally, this involves altering your lifestyle. An example would be getting a new job that allows you to fully express yourself with others on an on-going basis, then adopt an active lifestyle in which you perform many physical activities.
2. Through Understanding Seduction
Through understanding seduction, you can lead your logical mind to perform logical behaviors and gradually switch into a more social, imaginative state. Once you have fully understood the art of seduction, you can actually stay in a fully logical state, which is comfortable to you, and embrace a natural, enticing conversation with a beautiful woman. In a way, you are converting the previously very vague art of seduction to a more logical state which your daily mind can handle. Normally, this wouldn’t be necessary, but the new lifestyles that many have adopted come with unforeseen consequences and make this technology a must.
