A friend of mine told me this story: she was taking dancing classes, and a really friendly guy had been giving her lots of attention for a couple of sessions. He was the classic “nice” guy: always agreeing, apologizing and trying to please her. He was bumbling and wore oversized clothes. One day, a friend took her aside and said: “Hey, why are you not going for that guy? Look at him, he’s all into you.”

She answered: “Yes – but come on, he’s not a man! ” Darwinian, huh? Now, when guys ask me “What do girls look for in a guy”, I always remember this story, and one of my first answers is: balls.

Females love males

Remember this: girls, feminine by nature, are attracted to masculinity. The more of that they sense in a man, the harder they’ll find it to resist. Isn’t it the same for you with very feminine women?

Well, my friend certainly didn’t find the dancing teddy bear attractive. Cuddly and nice, yes, but panty-wetting hot? Nope. Why? A couple of things she told me:


– He apologized all the time.
– He had no opinion of his own
– He had no sex appeal
– He couldn’t make her laugh
– He was too “nice”

Ouch. The last one especially hurts, because once you’re in that category, your sex life is done. Grow some balls to resurrect it.

  • Emma Ayla

    A girl wants a guy that cares for her. A girl wants a guy to call her pretty and be there for her when she’s sad. Oh and a girl doesn’t want a guy who is afraid to kiss her around her friends 🙂

  • williams

    its real cool,just like taking a beutiful,’of dream’ girl onto your hand and ask you to do what you want.
    ha ha haa.pretty cool

  • Desiree

    The key word here is confidence. Be confident around that person when you two are alone or infront of other people. Girls like confident, sexy, mature guys.

  • Damon

    u hit the nail on the bu-tt – great stuff man!

  • Mystery

    I Look for a guy that is Funny,nice,calls u Pretty or beautiful,and is not afraid to hug you or kiss you in front of their friends … :]

    Especially the last one dont keep it a seret!!!

  • Joe – Pick Up Women HQ

    The bottom line is that women are attracted to MASCULINE MEN, be a man take responsibility for your life and control everything in your life. Don’s be a wussy who takes everything lying down.