How to Attract Girls Without Them Knowing You’re Doing It


Once you master the basics of how to attract girls, then chasing women won’t be necessary as they will come to you. When a woman is chasing you instead of the other way around, it is much easier to be relaxed and have a good time instead of concentrating on what to do next.

So what attracts girls ?

Things that are out of the ordinary. If you blend in with the rest of the world, then no one will ever notice you walking down the street, or in any location for that matter.

How do most people blend ? By following what everyone else does and this leads to catastrophic results when trying to attract women. Instead, make sure you differentiate yourself by looking or behaving slightly differently than everyone else.

Be a leader

Being a follower is boring and speaks a lot about your personality. It shows that you are insecure to try new things and that you don’t want attention. Now the trick to being noticed is not to dress up in bright yellow colors, but to add one interesting item to your physical appearance. There are a few guidelines to selecting the proper attire that will attract women without making you look like a fool.

Becoming More Attractive

First, take into consideration what kind of social setting you will be in. If you’re going to a club, then you can go all out with outlandish clothing and accessories. However, if you’re going to the library, it would be more effective to carefully choose one single attention drawing accessory.

For clubs, keep in mind that you want to look different than everyone else. If everyone else is dressed up with expensive clothing, then wearing something cheap will work better. You’ll automatically be classified as the ‘guy who doesn’t care’, which can be very attractive.

If you’re at a place where people are dressed like bums, then feel free to dress up a little more and you’ll automatically be seen as ‘the only classy guy’ in the place.

Sometimes clothing itself can make a large enough difference, however accessories can further improve your magnetism throughout the day. Something unique that represents you is the ideal thing. Let’s say you enjoy biking, then you could have a necklace with a bicycle on it for instance. Then, in a social situation, people will notice and comment on your accessories.

Stand Out To Get Noticed

The more out-of-the-ordinary your accessories are, the more you will get noticed. However, you must be able to continue the conversation and match the boldness of your accessory with your personality. You see, once you’ve attracted them, you need to learn how to keep them.

This is just the beginning

There are numerous different things that attract girls and this is just the beginning… but before we finish, I want to leave you with the most important one: having an attractive attitude.

An Attractive Attitude

The attitude that you have is more important than all the clothes, money and looks in the world. Its cliche, but personality is more important to women than looks. In fact, there are a few secret techniques that will make you irresistible to women regardless of appearance. One of the most effective techniques is the Obsession Method by Kate Spring (Read our review here). It teaches all the fundamental and advanced ways on how to attract girls and keep them attracted to you permanently… and then puts everything into one simple method. I seen a lot of programs and it’s by far the best one.

Frequently Asked Questions
How to attract girls as a male?

You'll attract the right person at the right time in the right ways when you do. Just be yourself. Also, who knows? Maybe someone you know is already head over heels for you?

I know an INFJ guy who'd probably ask the same questions you would and he literally has 2 or 3 girls in love with him. Just be.

How do i attract girls that are looking to have fun?

So, uh, where have you been meeting girls that claim to want a serious relationship?