Everyone loves to make new friends. Friends provide comfort, are there to experience the good times with you and will help you when you need them. Friends also introduce you to their other friends, which include the type of woman you desire. The true masters of networking can build up and manage multiple social circles with thousands of people in them, ensuring that they are never wanting for company. With a little practice, you can master how to build a social circle, allowing you to meet plenty of new women consistently.
A Social Circle From Scratch
You need to start building your social circle somewhere, and the best (and only) way you can do that is to go out and meet people. Your very first contact can be found any way possible – through existing friends, through co-workers, even going out and talking to someone on the street! The main idea though is to transform this contact into a friend by getting to know them and connecting with them. You may ask, “how can I connect with them?” It may seem daunting, especially if you have no experience meeting people on a regular basis, but turning a stranger into a friend is much easier than you may expect. The simple fact that you’re not trying to attract them sexually makes this much easier for you. All you need to do is be friendly and show interest in your contact. Smile and make small talk with them until you find something they’re passionate about, then allow them to talk about their passion for as long as they want. Everyone’s favourite topic is themselves, and simply by allowing them to talk about themselves and your being interested in them, will immediately raise yourself in their eyes.
Once you’ve established this person as a friend, its time to start expanding. Invite them to events that you’re organizing and tell them to bring their friends along. Sell your event, making it seem as the biggest event of the year, and emphasize how much you’re looking forward to seeing them. This will simultaneously make them feel special, making them more likely to attend, and the more exciting the event sounds, the more likely they are to bring their friends. After all, all everyone wants is to have a good time!
Friends of friends
Once you meet their friends, simply repeat the previous steps over and over again, each time expanding your social circle. As you start to build your social circle, you’ll meet more and more people and before you know it, it will start to be difficult to keep in touch with everyone! Make sure you continue to have a presence in their life though. Send occasional text messages or give them calls to see how they’re doing. Try and meet up with them once in a while and send them invitations to events you’re organizing or attending. The more of a presence you have in someone’s life, the more they will come to accept you as a friend.
The key to having people introduce you to their friends is threefold.
1) Be non-threatening. If you seem overtly aggressive when meeting new people, or try and pursue every single one of your new friend’s female friends, they will stop introducing you to their friends, as they have their own reputation to consider. Yes, it may seem counterproductive, especially since you’re trying to expand your social circle in an effort to meet new women. However, it is still possible to pursue women without being threatening. Simply make all interactions light-hearted and fun and women will forgive you for any social faux pas that you might make.
2) Give value. Host parties and other events, introduce friends to people you believe they would like to meet and make sure they feel valued and are having a good time whenever they’re with you. People want to hang out with others who make them feel important and who show them a good time, and they want to bring friends into a world where they feel they will have a good time as well.
3) Compliment people on how social they are and how they seem to know so many people. If you give a person a reputation to live up to, they will try their utmost to live up to it. A small comment like this will ensure that your friends will continually introduce you to new people, so that they can maintain their image as being a sociable, popular person in your eyes.
Once you’ve built up a large network of friends and acquaintances, you will be surprised at how easy it is to meet new people, both men and women. The further out your network reaches and the more social circles you are integrated with, the more opportunities you will have to meet the people that you want to meet, and before you know it, you will be chased by women who know you through your vast multitude of friends.
People with no friends or social circle what do you do in your downtime?
Enjoy the peace & quiet. Read, study, catch up on tv & movies, clean, fix things.
What opinions do you have that are unpopular in singapore in your social circle?
I'm probably gonna be hated here for saying this too but here goes:
I am going to abort my child as soon as I find any disabilities(mental/physical) that will give him a disadvantage in the society.
To me, Singapore is already tough to be living in right now, it's just gonna get worse. As a parent, the minimum I should do is to make sure my kid has equal starting line as everybody else. By letting my kid be born with disabilities is not doing him justice. Sure, he could've been a great child with a great life. But that's could've, the odds are against him, I would rather send him back to heaven to wait for a better body for him to come to earth.
My friends think I'm cruel. But really, I find that letting the kid fight an unfair battle to begin with, that's unfair.
Is your social circle also pursuing fire?
No. Nearly everyone I know is in debt, paycheck to paycheck, or only have an emergency buffer.
We, as a company, got a big bonus recently. Half the office bought brand new cars... a few in the 40k+ variety.
What is your social circle passionate about that you have no interest in?
Clash of fucking Clans.
How common is smoking in your social circle?
Weed-common, vaping- somewhat, smoking cigarettes- not a single one.