Here’s a secret, if you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you, then do the exact opposite of what you’ve probably been doing in the past. Why? Well for starters, if you actively try to get someone to like you, chances are the exact opposite will happen!
Have you ever chased a dog around in a yard? Sure, most people have… What happens when you chase a dog? He/She runs away! And you have to be REALLY fast to catch a female dog! (Hopefully someone will get that joke…)
Using the Right Bait
However, if instead you have a treat in your hand and you simply walk away, the dog will come chasing after you! (See how to get girls to chase you)
Now men AND women are the exact same way, we’ll stand in line for hours to get a free ice cream cone, but when if someone forcefully tries to get you to eat some free ice cream on the street… it’s likely you won’t even take it! And we’re talking about free ice cream here! What’s better than that?
Hopefully fireworks are going off right now, and somehow all the dating advice in the world is starting to make some sense… “Ahh, when you try to forcefully attract someone… they are repelled!”
So, what can you POSSIBLY do?
Well you can do what I call reverse psychology attraction. No, it’s not new, it’s not scary or even hard.. it’s just a fancy new name I came up to describe the term.
Getting a girl to like you with reverse psychology attraction
It really couldn’t be simpler. What do you do to people you aren’t trying to attract? Well for starters, you begin by teasing them. Playful back and forth is the best and most natural way of building attraction. Ever wonder why you enjoy being with your friends so much? Well, USUALLY it’s because friends tend to tease each other. It makes for good laughs, it’s fun and people feel comfortable around others that aren’t afraid of teasing them.
It’s when you’re trying to be too nice that you fail at getting a girl to like you.
I’d like to quote someone… but I really can’t remember the author so let’s just go with Anonymous said:
If you’re doing well and you’re trying very hard ‘not to screw it up’, then you’re doing it wrong! If things are going ‘well’, then you need to take risks and shake things up!
Most Guys Don’t Tease Enough!
Most guys don’t want to tease a girl because they are SCARED she might take it the wrong way and then be offended. You know what? Some will ! There are girls that WILL be offended because you just didn’t tease them properly. Flirting is an art and you need to develop it.
Imagine you’re with a friend.. and you’re playing pool. You might tease him by saying that he handles the cue stick and balls like a pro… and that could generate a laugh if said with the right tonality. However, if you were to say that he’s horrible as pool… that’s a harsher tease that probably won’t get the same response. If I were to draw a parallel with girls, you have to learn and practice how much you can tease in each situation.
Too little won’t work, too much will be offensive.
Now teasing is only one of many ways to get a girl giggling and chasing you, and in 500 words I can only cover so much.
However if you want to learn how to get a girl to like you (even your ex, and that girl at the coffee shop), then I strongly recommend looking up David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating. I don’t recommend much, but for dating advice and generating massive attraction, he’s the man on that subject.
Would I ever give you bad advice? No. So check it out!