Guide To: How To Make A Girl Comfortable When You First Meet Her

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Did you ever realize how quickly girls profile guys? It just takes them seconds: this guy’s a player. That one’s the classic “nice guy”, the next one is too full of himself. Let me tell you, all of that is still tolerable, but there’s one type that’s horrible beyond hope: the creep.

Once you’re in that category, you’re done.

A creep is a guy who has no frickin’ clue how to make a girl comfortable!

He behaves like a total dick and literally creeps the ladies out. It’s bad. Really bad. If a creep is an only child, he will extinguish his family’s name for all eternity unless he changes.

I realized how serious this is, and I want to share my knowledge with you today.

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Comfortable or creepy?

This is an easy one for me, because I have been there often enough to tell. You are a creep if you do these or similar things…

– give her a lot of flowers after talking to her once
– make explicit sexual remarks to her in front of your common colleagues
– poke her in the sides all the effing time
– hover around her awkwardly for an hour wearing questionable clothes
– get harrowingly wasted and blubber a compliment about her boobs into her boobs

…and if she reacts in these or similar ways:

– avoids your company
– only responds in very short phrases
– never contacts you ever again
– talks to her girlfriends while sending worried glances your way
– runs away

All right, so how do I make her comfortable, you ask?

Let’s explore how to build a deep connection with a woman. First, smile because you’re happy

Don’t be the snarling, growling Clint Eastwood type. Clint can pull it off, you can’t. You actually profit from being genuinely friendly and caring. Give her a smile (see how to make a girl smile) when she deserves it (not to please her! Only when she makes you feel good! And point that out). The point of the smile is to show that you’re a happy, positive guy. If you’re happy then your life must be good…

Don’t you feel all warm and fuzzy inside when somebody smiles at you because they enjoy your company? You feel appreciated. So will she. She will enjoy your company because she craves attention, and you give it to her.

Be comfortable touching her

For the uninitiated, stay the hell away from her breasts. There are actually other perfectly acceptable parts of a woman you can touch early on in an interaction that show that you are comfortable with touching people. The logic behind this is that, if you’re comfortable touching people, then other people must touch you on a regular basis so it’s “Ok”.

– Tell her your name and shake her hand
– Touch her shoulder with the back of your hand when you make a point
– High fives
– Nudge her lightly if she teases you
– Spin her around
– Read our kino article

The way you treat others counts

You can be Mister Awesome with her all night, attentive, funny, intriguing, magnetic. But as soon as you dick around with the waiter, annoy the people at the next table or insult a guy who comes over to hit on her while she’s with you, guess what, you’re done.

Why?

Because she will see that your attitude towards her is just a facade. You’re either genuinely positive, or you’re a hypocrite. Nobody wants to be with a hypocrite.

So if a guy comes over from the bar to hit on her, don’t become Mister Territory Alpha Dog. Shake the guy’s hand, be friendly, make him a compliment. He’s a human being, too. He, too, wants to be appreciated. You are not needy. You are not desperate. YOU ARE NOT OUTCOME-DEPENDENT. You give people love because you want to, not because you want them. You are ready to lose her at any point because you know you’re awesome enough to meet more great girls.

When you start appreciating the guy who came to hit on her, there will be a loud voice in her head yelling “What? No! Me! No! Me!” and she’ll want even more of your attention! And the guy will happily leave you two alone when you say “hey, we’re gonna get some privacy now, but let’s stay in touch on Facebook, you’re cool.” Believe you me, your chances will rise exponentially if you concentrate on how to make a girl comfortable with you. Go out and be awesome.

1. What is the best way to make a girl feel comfortable when you first meet her?

When you first meet a girl, it’s crucial to be friendly and make her feel at ease. Learn how to talk to girls effectively by discussing her interests and getting to know her feel comfortable. Talk to her about her interests and get to know her. Compliment her and make her feel special. Be a gentleman and treat her with respect. Let her know that you are interested in her and want to get to know her better.

2. What are some things you should avoid doing when meeting a girl for the first time?

There are a few things you should avoid doing when meeting a girl for the first time. First, avoid being late. If you’re meeting for a date, make sure you’re on time. Nothing says “I’m not interested” more than being late. Second, avoid being too nervous. It’s okay to be nervous, but try to relax and be yourself. Third, avoid talking about yourself too much.

3. How can you tell if a girl is uncomfortable?

There are many ways to tell if a girl is uncomfortable. She may avoid eye contact, fidget with her hands or clothing, or cross her arms over her chest. She may also lean away from you or turn her body away from you. Her voice may sound higher pitched than usual or she may speak more quickly than usual. She may also sweat, blush, or have difficulty swallowing.

4. What should you do if a girl appears uncomfortable?

If a girl appears uncomfortable, the best thing to do is to ask her if she is okay. If she says she is not comfortable, then you should try to make her feel more comfortable by talking to her and getting to know her better. If she still appears uncomfortable, then you should ask her if she would like to leave the situation.

5. Is there a difference between making a girl feel comfortable and making her feel attracted to you?

There is definitely a difference between making a girl feel comfortable and making her feel attracted to you. When you make a girl feel comfortable, you are simply making her feel at ease and relaxed in your presence. This can be done by being friendly and easy-going, and by making sure that she feels safe and secure in your company. On the other hand, when you make a girl feel attracted to you, you are creating a sexual and emotional connection with her.

6. How important is it to make a girl feel comfortable when you first meet her?

It is very important to make a girl feel comfortable when you first meet her. This is because if you make her feel uncomfortable, she may not want to talk to you or may not want to see you again. Additionally, if you make a girl feel comfortable, she will be more likely to want to talk to you and to want to see you again.

7. What are some common mistakes guys make when trying to make a girl feel comfortable?

There are a lot of common mistakes that guys make when trying to make a girl feel comfortable. One of the biggest mistakes is trying to be someone that they’re not. Girls can see through that pretty quickly and it’ll make them feel uncomfortable. Another big mistake is trying to rush things. Trying to move too fast or trying to get too close too soon is a surefire way to make a girl feel uncomfortable. Guys also need to be careful about how they’re touching a girl.

8. What is the best way to approach a girl?

Some tips on how to approach a girl might include being confident, making eye contact, and starting a conversation by asking her questions about herself. Additionally, it might be helpful to Compliment her on something you notice about her. For example, if she has a great smile, you could say, “I really like your smile.”

9. How can you make conversation with a girl more enjoyable for both of you?

The best way to make conversation more enjoyable for both of you is to be genuinely interested in what she has to say and to make an effort to find common ground. Ask her questions about herself and her interests, and share your own stories and experiences in a way that is both honest and engaging. Try to avoid controversial topics or anything that might make her feel uncomfortable, and be aware of your body language and tone of voice – both of which should be open and friendly.

10. What are some strategies to have a meaningful conversation with the girl of your dreams and build rapport?

There are many things you can do to build rapport with a girl. Here are some examples:
– Compliment her on her appearance.
– Ask her about her day and genuinely listen to her answer.
– Make her laugh by telling her funny stories or jokes.
– Share your own personal stories with her to create a connection.
– Find common interests and discuss them.
– Be a gentleman and treat her with respect.

Frequently Asked Questions
How to not look like a threat and make a girl feel comfortable?

By not thinking of yourself as a threat. You project what you think of yourself to others in many ways. In the way you talk, walk, look at people and body language.

Just like when you're learning advance or defensive driving, you're told to steer into a slide and DO NOT LOOK AT THE OBSTACLE! If you fear that tree, and focus on that tree, that's where you're going. Same goes for your attitude toward yourself. The more you worry about being one way (threatening, weak, idiotic, whatever) the more those traits start appearing.

What is Threatening
You also need to understand that what you considering 'bad' about being threatening, is a little misunderstood.
Simply looking threatening has never hurt anyone, and certainly won't scare women away (as long as you deal with it correctly).

You should look threatening, you are dangerous. You are older, bigger, stronger, more confident, and more powerful than any of the boys she sees in her life. That does make her feel a little threatened. But she also can't shake the feeling that she just HAS to know what the intent is behind your menacing eyes when you look at her.
That little sparkle that says "I know exactly what to do with you" does more for her libido than all the bullshit compliments and game the kids are trying on her.

Your issue with being 'threatening' is the same concept as guys who think they can't get laid because they're too short, or black, or too muscly, or name your own self-fucking.
It is in your head. This is your excuse for not having the balls to approach those women that give you the eye. If they are giving you the eye, then it's your job to approach and make this happen.

How to make a girl feel more comfortable?

Stop. Just stop with the "Oh I'm sorry let me qualify this to you." routine. Just ask her out for heavens sake. Nothing less off putting to anyone when you try to back track and look like you have no clue what you're trying to say other "I'm sorry I am weird."

Just say Hey. Hows it going. Strike up a conversation. Mention something fun you are going to do and ask if she wants to join.

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If you arn't the best "texter", or what ever that means. Can I assume you have a hard time talking with women in general?

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Kids these days need to distance themselves from these online communications. It's a degradation of real communication. What ever happend to walking up to a girl and saying "Hi, I'm so and so and I think your cute, can I buy you a drink?" Or whatever. \*oldmanrant\*

How to make a shy girl relax with me feel herself comfortable?

Well, you can't make another person do something. You'll just have to keep holding up the conversation until she feels comfortable with you. I'm in a similar situation, but after a few dates and lots of sex, she's really opened up in private, in public she's still quiet.

It could be your date is really uncomfortable in public too. Here are some ideas.

1. Figure out what she's really passionate about and then talk about that. This is great for getting people to start talking.

2. Get a few drinks in her. That will usually relax most people. Don't be an ass and try to get her drunk

3. Stop bringing her to crowded bars and restaurants and take her to a quiet park or the beach or a darkish dive bar.

4. Spend a lot of time cuddling and kissing and fucking. This is a way that a lot of shy women get comfortable with a man and will be much more comfortable talking wrapped in your arms after an orgasm. This will translate immediately to outside of the bedroom as well.

5. Find a shared interest to discuss and talk about. Shy people are shy, they're undergoing a torturous experience depending on the level of anxiety to just state an opinion. So if you have some shared interests that they feel safe talking about, it helps build some confidence.

How do i make a girl more comfortable to express herself?

Express yourself to her. Be a good friend.